Malapit na naman ang Valentines Day, at araw na ng mga puso. Ilan sa atin nag aasam na sana mahanap na natin yung taong nakalaan sa atin or yung tinatawag na "The One". Yung iba naman inlove na talaga at kontento na sa mga partner nila. Minsan naman may mga magkareslasyon naman na kung kailan malapit na ang Valentines don pa maghihiwalay. Ang saklap naman di ba? Pero isipin na lang natin na naghiwalay kayo hindi dahil may kasalanan ka o may kasalanan sya. Walang sisihan kung sino ang may mali kasi the more you think about it and the more you dig into the situation the more you are being hurt. Ang isipin na lang natin nagkahiwalay kayo dahil may mas magandang dahilan ang lahat. Maybe you are not really meant for each other and someone better would come along. Pwedi rin naman na it's just a true test of love at sa bandang huli kayo pa din naman (Hehe! Pinapaasa pa! Nasasaktan na nga) but who knows di ba? In the end of it kayo pa rin talaga ang nakalaan para sa isa't isa and the next time you'll be together alam mo na kung paano dadalhin ng mas maayos ang inyong relationship. For sure naman while the two of you are away from each other don nyo marerealize ang kahalagahan ng isa't isa ng iyong "The One that Got Away".
Ang ilan sa atin nasa relasyon na akala mo kayo na talaga until the end and you will grow old together and you will build a family of your own. Minsan nga kahit nakapagpundar na din kayo ng family nagkakahiwalay pa din. Bakit? saan ka ba nagkulang? ginawa mo din naman ang lahat para sa inyong relasyon pero nauwi pa din sa wala ang lahat. May mga bagay talaga na tanging ang panahon lang ang makakasagot. Sabi ko nga there's a reason for everything, antayin mo lang kung ano ang sagot ng tadhana kung bakit hindi kayo ang itinakda. Ang mahalaga dumaan sya sa buhay mo at dumaan ka sa buhay nya sa isang bahagi ng buhay nyo naging masaya kayo sa isa't isa. Di ba it's so wonderful kung iisipin mo na sa dinami dami ng tao sa mundo nagtagpo ang mga landas nyo para maging masaya. Nakilala mo sya at nakilala ka din nya and you have shared the same feelings?
Pero minsan di naman totoo na you have the same feelings yong iba one sided lang talaga (Pinaglaruan ka lang pala) Oh, nasasaktan ka ba if nalaman mo na hindi naman pala totoo? Pero mas mabuti na yung nasaktan ka at nalaman mo atleast you have the time to move on with your life. For sure naman there will always be a person that will be meant for you, who will love you wholeheartedly yung hindi ka paiiyakin at sasaktan lang. Yung tao na walang ibang iisipin kung hindi kung paano ka magiging masaya. Mas masarap yung feelings na lagi kang special sa buhay nya at hindi kumpleto ang araw nya kung hindi ka nakakasama o napapasaya. Yung tao na gagawin ang lahat para maging masaya ka lang. Yung tao na ikaw ang magiging mundo nya hindi sya ang magiging mundo mo. Pero paano nga naman if hindi ka naman masaya sa kanya at sya lang ang masaya sayo. We'll kung may taong ganyan na dumating sa buhay mo at di mo naman natututunang mahalin ikaw na ang may problema. Maybe you need to reformat your heart and erase the memories of your past parang memory card lang baka marami ng memories na naka save kaya ayaw ng tumanggap ng bagong files hehe. Ganyan naman pag na attached ka emotionally sa isang tao mahirap makalimutan pero you need to help yourself kasi walang ibang makakatulong sa'yo kundi ikaw lang hindi ang ibang tao kung sarado na ang puso mo sa iba. Pero antayin mo lang baka naman it's too early pa for you and you still have to heal the wounds of the past. It's better if the person who will love us is willing to wait for you paano pala if nawalan na sya ng pag asa at lumayo na din lang kagaya ng taong minahal mo and then later narealize mo na kaya mo din pala syang mahalin kung kailan wala na sya. We'll ang masasabi ko better luck next time baka may darating pa na mas deserving of your love and by the time na dumating sya mas handa ka na.
We don't need to cling on our past and be lonely because the relationship didn't worked the way we wanted it to be. If you are really meant for each other you will end up together again. As long as we live there will always be a brighter side for our future whether when it comes to our love life or our dreams in life. As long as our life goes on our love story continues because that is part of our life. You must learn to handle what lies ahead and be thankful for beautiful moments we had in our life because those beautiful moments are gift from God that we should cherish forever. If the person who makes you happy got away for some reason maybe it's because God is preparing us for another beautiful chapter of our life and that beautiful chapter will be sweeter than ever and it will pour us with so much happiness forever.
We must remember that most of the time fate dictates our destiny to find our way to the person meant for us. May kasabihan nga na time is the true test of love. There are numerous number of beautiful love stories I know personally na kahit ang tagal tagal na nilang nalayo sa isa't isa ng "The One That Got Away" nila they bump into each other again in unexpected time and unexpected places and their love flourished all over again and they end up being together and they live happily ever after. Parang fairy tale lang may magandang happy ending. Sabi nga noon ng isang kanta, love moves in mysterious ways.
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